One thing leads to a BeDe

I had a debate with someone as to whether or not asking a girl out is ceding the power in the relationship and therefore surrendering male spiritual leadership in the relationship. So, I wrote a Haiku and married it to an image (and a title) and made this thing, then someone suggested superimposing Christ to the idea (as a further example of one who maintains leadership while giving us the choice), so I suddenly found myself fast approching BeDe.

WARNING! Too much prose! Not enough poetry! PULL UP! PULL UP! EJECT! EJECT EJECT!